This is another instructional video from Jewish Pathways, a branch of Aish.com, on how to wash your hands before eating bread. The blessing of 'Al Netilas Yadayim' is recited after the washing of hands.
Here is a free presentation from Aish.com's Jewish Pathways website that teaches you how to make havdalah. It is professionally done and well worth learning from it.
The Jews are famous for praying at the gravesites of deceased relatives, tzadikim and tzikaniyos. However, when praying at a gravesite, one should be very careful to not cross the line to the prohibited --- praying to the dead.